 Confidence - we're told
- is the key to everything in life. Many people seem to be able to switch it on at a glance, whereas others seem to struggle with intermittent feelings of confidence flickering in and out like a light bulb about to blow. Other people seem to have no confidence at all and would even find it difficult to communicate how they think and feel about anything to almost anyone.
So what is this elusive, magical thing confidence that so many people struggle to find while others seem to be born with it? Many authors look at achievement as being intrinsically linked to a feeling of confidence, but then we could ask how is it you can find people who appear very confident and yet to an outsider they appear to have achieved little in life? Conversely do we not find people who are extremely high achievers and yet they seem to lack that confident edge?
And how often do we find people who appear to be extremely confident when you first meet them and then over time you as get to know them you can see that it's actually a front for all their insecurities that are hidden just beneath the surface
- is that real confidence?
We have a simple approach to help people become more confident at Get
Coached. As someone who is regarded by many to have oodles of the stuff I'm going to ignore all the books, the experts on confidence who tell us we have to think this and that and this do this and that and really jump through many hoops before we can find our inner confidence.
In my mind its simple, confidence is the absence of self-doubt another words confidence it's not anything at all it is the absence of the habitual negative thoughts that we have about ourselves or others which are judgments based on our beliefs that cause us to feel self-doubt. This means that actually confidence is our natural state and that we get pulled away from it when we start to take on board peoples ideas about who we are. This starts when we are children and goes on to affect the vast majority of us unconsciously until we pass from this life.
Do you feel you lack confidence in some area of life, you will be pleasantly surprised about how a we can help you to become more confident unleashing the real you in the following areas
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Relationships
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Career
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Self-Belief
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Learning
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